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But there are a few things you should look at before you comment to be added...

The Basics: This is the journal of a twenty-something, decidedly liberal, rabidly feminist, most assuredly not-straight, fannishly-oriented, godless heathen. I am extremely opinionated and fairly stubborn, but do my best to maintain an open mind. This journal is friends-only because I bitch frequently about this and that, and some things are better kept out of the open. I value critical thinking, good chocolate, intelligent conversation, and warm socks. I am very often quite a silly person.

Friending policy: I friend people whose journals I have an interest in following. Comment here if you'd like me to friend you; I'll probably investigate your journal before I do so. You do have to comment to be added; if you friend me without saying anything, I won't friend you back. I reserve the right not to friend you at all, or to add you and then remove you later. Feel free to add and drop me at will; it won't hurt my feelings, I promise. As a general rule, though, if you bother to leave a comment, I'll friend you.

Exceptions to the friending policy: if u tyep li3k th1s, there is no chance in hell that I will friend you. You have to respect the English language before I will respect you.

If you are the type of person who likes to really ratchet up the drama by posting entries to the effect of If you don't comment then I'll defriend you! then I will roll my eyes at you, drop you out of Default View, and breathe a sigh of relief whenever you get around to taking me off your friends list. I don't care for drama, and I especially don't care to enable drama. If you're the sort who thrives on drama, then perhaps you'd best save yourself the time and find another journal to friend.

My posting levels: I post a lot. Sometimes the content is thoughtful, deep, and meaningful. Mostly it is fangirly fluff and/or bitching about how much I need sleep or how much I hate my neighbors and so forth. I do tend to filter a lot of my posts, depending on the subject matter, but the fact remains that I post a lot. If you don't want to be spammed on a daily basis, this may not be the journal for you.

If you still think you want to be added, then by all means, comment! I don't believe I'm as much of a bitch as the above makes me sound, but I like to be straightforward whenever possible, and forewarned is forearmed. ^_^

 

Comments

Dec. 29th, 2007 01:29 am (UTC)
Hi. Guess who... :)
Dec. 29th, 2007 01:48 am (UTC)
*solemn* Haven't the foggiest.

*grins*
Jan. 7th, 2008 10:34 pm (UTC)
dude friend me
Jan. 7th, 2008 10:42 pm (UTC)
You're here? I didn't know you were here! *snuggles*
Jan. 19th, 2008 04:26 am (UTC)

PLEASE ADD ME!!!

Hi!

My name is Tonya Joy Briggs. I live and work in San Francisco, and am going into my 2nd year shaman training. (This is the boring part of Shaman work, because this is the year I fully integrate into that "normal" society.)

So, I like your journal, would comment every time you posted, if that's okay. I'm looking for good friends to have on my friends list, because I only read about 1 new post a day, and its getting rather dull.

So if you want to read the journal of another heathen lesbo, check out mine. I'm kinda crazy, but life is basically a good thing.

-Tonya Joy Briggs-
Vulpinephoenix
Jan. 19th, 2008 03:30 pm (UTC)

Re: PLEASE ADD ME!!!

*laughing* Hey, welcome aboard. *rueful* I can't promise that my journal is actually as interesting as my friends-only post makes it sound like it ought to be, but at least I do tend to post once or twice (or more times) a day.

Fair warning: this journal is the one I started after (mostly-)leaving LJ, so there are lots of slant references and in-jokes, and characters who pop up and offer their opinions on my posts. I'm not honestly crazy, just... possessed of a rich and vivid interior life. ^^;
Jan. 23rd, 2008 02:43 am (UTC)
Ok, this is me...trying this openID thing...hope it works. :)
Jan. 23rd, 2008 03:08 am (UTC)
Okay! I've added you--go see if you can see actual entries in my journal. *crosses fingers and hopes this works*
Feb. 5th, 2008 07:26 pm (UTC)
Hullo. =( Missing your constant posting. Add?
Feb. 5th, 2008 07:53 pm (UTC)
♥! Added~

(And the posting is... very constant when I'm procrastinating. Like I am today. Heh.)
Feb. 24th, 2008 12:54 am (UTC)

Do I understand OpenID?

(Hint: the answer is "no." But if I accidentally got this right, you should friend me, so that I can bask in the familiar glow of your posts.)
Feb. 24th, 2008 01:13 am (UTC)

Re: Do I understand OpenID?

Sweetness! *snuggles you* *runs off to friend your open-ID account*

See if that makes it so you can see my recent blathering?
Apr. 2nd, 2008 03:33 am (UTC)
echoing the sentiments above. here's hoping this works? i miss seeing you on my flist.
Apr. 2nd, 2008 01:09 pm (UTC)
Yup, it should have worked! I have you added to the flist, so let me know if you can't see any of my entries.
Apr. 8th, 2008 11:59 pm (UTC)
I just went ahead and make a journal here since I know a few people on IJ now. So, hi again? ;D
Apr. 9th, 2008 12:12 am (UTC)
Hey hey, welcome aboard!
Apr. 14th, 2008 12:37 am (UTC)

Add!

Damn, I need to poke at IJ more often. *keeps forgetting*
Apr. 14th, 2008 01:04 am (UTC)

Re: Add!

*laughing* It's a little tricky to remember to check both lists at first, yeah.
Nov. 8th, 2008 05:33 pm (UTC)
Hi, I'm here via Lynn. I've been reading your fic for a while but I hear you're posting a lot about Hibari and that sounds interesting ^_^

Friend me?
Nov. 8th, 2008 06:13 pm (UTC)
*laughing* Sure thing~

I'll confess, I don't actually post much here. My journaling home these days is actually IJ, same username.
Nov. 8th, 2008 06:14 pm (UTC)
Or, you know, I could totally fail to clue in that you were commenting on my IJ. *laughs at herself a whole lot* Anyway, welcome!
Mar. 30th, 2009 06:43 am (UTC)
I just really have to say that anyone that uses a picture of Terry Pratchett's death seems to me as if they'd be a really awesome person so I'm friending you, not to mention you seem to have a sane outlook toward fandom and drama (I rather despise drama myself, which is why I sort of dropped out of the LJ world for the most part).


Son once again, I hope you don't mind.. I promise I don't bite, at least not too hard.
Mar. 30th, 2009 09:29 am (UTC)
*grinning* Well, I try for a sane outlook on fandom and drama, mostly. And keep the insane reactions where the world can't stumble over them.

Welcome aboard! *uses Vetinari icon to complement the Death icon*
Mar. 30th, 2009 05:21 pm (UTC)
You know, my favorite character in the whole Terry Prachett world has got to be Death, if only because I think it's awesome that Death is a cat lover. *though I'm also a fool for Good Omens, and Azriphale who is my hero*

I think that life is too short for drama, for getting riled up. I have my opinions and other people have their opinions and I think that is how it should be, I like to surround myself with people who are relatively sane as well.. but well discussion is the curry of the fandom world and I'm not opposed to a little bit of that.
Mar. 30th, 2009 08:08 pm (UTC)
I'm pretty partial to Granny Weatherwax, myself, and then Vimes. But I love 'em all, really. (Except for Rincewind; him I'm only fond of in small doses.)